Break Free From the Patterns You Didn’t Know Were Running Your Life
Coaching helps you uncover what’s been driving your reactions, relationships, and decisions — and gives you a clear path toward connection, clarity, and personal freedom.
Most people try to change by focusing on what they can see: habits, reactions, behaviours, communication styles,
or surface-level frustrations.
But the real drivers of our lives live underneath the surface — the motivations we don’t realize we’re trying to satisfy, the fears we learned early on, and the instinctual patterns that kick in long before we have time to think.
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repeating the same relational patterns
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reacting instead of responding
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feeling confused by our own behaviour
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getting frustrated with the people we love
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wondering why growth feels harder than it should
Coaching helps you make sense of all of it — without shame, judgment, or pressure — so you can finally move forward with confidence and compassion.
Most personality tools describe what you do.
The Enneagram helps explain why you do it.
As a certified iEQ9 practitioner, I use the Enneagram as a framework to help you understand the deeper motivations, blind spots, instinctual patterns, and emotional drivers that shape your life.
You’ll see all coaching packages and pricing on the next page
What to Expect in Coaching
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1. Assess:
Precision Insight
You’ll complete the iEQ9 Enneagram Assessment — the most accurate and comprehensive Enneagram report available. It reveals the internal patterns that influence how you think, feel, and relate.
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2. Interpret:
Making Sense of Your Story
In our first session, we’ll walk through your results together, connecting the dots between your motivations, triggers, stress patterns, gifts, and the way you show up in relationships.
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3. Integrate:
Real-World Change
This is where transformation happens.
We turn those insights into practical steps that help you communicate with clarity, build healthier relational rhythms, and respond with wisdom instead of old patterns.
You’ll leave each session with actionable tools — not vague ideas — that you can apply the same day.
Why I Do This Work
For more than 20 years, I worked closely with people navigating questions about identity, relationships, and meaning — often in seasons where things felt confusing, stuck, or heavier than they expected.
Over time, I began to notice a pattern.
Most people didn’t struggle in their relationships because they lacked desire, motivation, or good intentions. They struggled because they couldn’t see why the same dynamics kept showing up — at home, at work, and inside themselves.
The real obstacles were rarely on the surface.
They were the underlying patterns shaping how people reacted, protected themselves, pursued connection, or avoided it altogether.
Discovering the Enneagram didn’t just give me language for those patterns — it changed how I understand them.
Like many people, I first encountered the Enneagram through a free online test and spent a long stretch feeling confused by results that didn’t quite fit. When I later discovered the iEQ9 framework, it finally brought clarity to things I had sensed for years but couldn’t articulate — and it opened up growth I didn’t realize was possible.
Today, I work with individuals, couples, and teams to help them understand what’s really driving their reactions and relationships — using a tool designed to bring clarity, compassion, and grounded self-awareness.
For those who want to explore it, we can also make space for the spiritual side of life — without pressure or expectation.
My coaching style is warm, honest, practical, and deeply human.
No judgment.
No pressure.
Just real conversation and real growth.
Is This Coaching a Good Fit for You?
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This Coaching Is for You If…
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You want to understand why certain patterns keep repeating
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You’re open to exploring emotional, relational, and spiritual growth
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You’ve achieved a lot externally but crave deeper internal clarity
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You want practical tools for communicating, connecting, and responding with wisdom
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You want a trusted guide who will challenge you kindly and encourage you consistently
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You’re ready to grow in your relationship with yourself and the people who matter most
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This Is Not for You If…
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You’re looking for quick tips without deeper reflection
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You prefer to stay surface-level and aren’t open to exploring internal motivations and patterns
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You want therapy, trauma work, or clinical counselling (I’m not a therapist)
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You aren’t open to compassionate self-honesty
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You’re hoping for someone to tell you what to do instead of learning to understand yourself more deeply
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You want guaranteed results without being willing to participate in the process
Explore Whether Coaching
Is the Right Next Step
Free 10-Minute Introductory Consultation
A simple, no-pressure way to see if we’re a good fit.
This call is for people who are exploring coaching
and want clarity on the next best step. It’s not
a coaching session — just a chance to connect and
see if we’re a good fit.
I love connecting with people, and I use a short
questionnaire to ensure our time together is meaningful
and aligned with your goals.
Before You Book, You’ll Answer
a Few Quick Questions
(This helps us make the most of our free, no-obligation 10-minute intro call.)
• What made you consider coaching right now?
• Which package or service are you leaning toward?
• What would you love to walk away with?
• Have you used the Enneagram before?
• If this feels like a good fit, are you open to
exploring what an investment in coaching could look like?
Not ready for coaching? You can always start with my free PDF or watch my Enneagram intro video.
You’re not a project to fix.
You’re a person with a story worth understanding.
My role isn’t to judge you or push you.
It’s to walk alongside you with curiosity, compassion, and clarity — helping you see what’s been shaping your inner world and giving you tools to grow with intention.
Wherever you are on the journey, I believe in you.
And I’d be honoured to walk with you into the next chapter.
— Mike
Certified iEQ9 Practitioner & Enneagram Coach
What Happens After You Click the Button?
✅ Step 1 — Complete Your Short Questionnaire
Your questionnaire helps me understand your goals, background, and what you’re hoping coaching can support.
It ensures our time together is focused, meaningful, and tailored to you.
📞 Step 2 — Your 10-Minute Intro Call
During this no-pressure call, we’ll get to know each other, explore what brought you here, and get clarity on whether coaching feels like the right next step.
This isn’t a coaching session — it’s a connection point.
🎯 Step 3 — Choose Your Path Forward
If it feels like a good fit after our intro call, you’re welcome to take a few hours or days to think about it. There’s absolutely no pressure.
📝 Step 4 — Your Coaching Agreement
Once you email me, I’ll send a short agreement that outlines everything clearly — what coaching includes, what it doesn’t, and the boundaries that keep our work healthy and effective.
You’ll sign it, send it back to me, and then I’ll countersign it.
💳 Step 5 — Complete Your Payment
After the agreement is in place, I’ll send a secure payment link for your coaching package.
🌱 Step 6 — Begin Your Growth Journey
If you decide to move forward, we’ll schedule your first session and begin working toward the clarity, connection, and transformation you’re looking for.
Ready to Explore Coaching?